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-Brittany Brydahl

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Update

 December 20th, 2009

I haven't had much time lately (as I'm sure you've noticed) to update the main page, or anything on the site really. I was dealing with my grandmother getting continually worse, and so I would like to apologize for not being here as much as I'd like to. As many of you know, my grandmother passed away on December 13th at 11:50pm. I still can't believe it, but I'm doing a lot better than I thought I would with the whole situation. It's so weird to have someone with you one moment, and then they're gone the next.. I don't know what more to say. I just loved her so much, she was like a mother to me, because my mom has always been a pretty crappy person and I don't like to think of her as my mom. Her relationship with me is very complicated. I can't wait to get grandma's ashes after Christmas and have her home with us again!!

I love you so much grandma and am glad you are no longer in pain. Wherever you are, I hope you are happy.

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RIP Brittany Murphy 

December 20th, 2009 

I wanted to express my condolences to Brittany Murphy's family. She passed away earlier today at the age of 32. Every time I saw her in interviews, she always seemed so happy and fun loving. Her smile and her laugh always brought a smile to my face.

She will be missed!

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Chris' First Interview after the Rihanna Incident

October 22nd, 2009

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Balloon Boy Parody

October 20th, 2009 

I just had to add this. It's too funny!!!!

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I Can't Wait To See New Moon!!

October 19th, 2009 

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Obama is for Gay Rights, Why can't we all be?!?! 

 October 15th, 2009

I wanted to share this with all of you. This is a MAJOR, MAJOR issue with me. I can't even fathom not being okay with people being who they are. If you disagree with this, PLEASE, take a little bit of your time, think about the lives of those who are gay, lesbian, bi, and transgendered.. what if you were in their shoes? You can say "I never would be, because it's wrong." But, let's play a game, like you used to as a kid.. just pretend for a moment.. what would you feel like if everyone around you was gay and being straight was wrong. How would you feel? Could you imagine the pain, being called a "hetero", people dodging you in class, acting like you don't exist. Could you imagine being beaten or even killed b/c what you KNEW was right for you, was wrong to them. That is complete discrimination. And, I swear to you, if it were that way, I'd be sitting here right now supporting you as well. Why can't we all stick together. Don't you think God would "forgive", (b/c I know many think it is a sin) don't you think if God knew in his heart that the person was that way and there was no way to change it, don't you think he would be okay with it? I do. If not, then God isn't a very nice person and I wouldn't want anything to do with him. I know and believe that whoever/whatever created us would be fine with who we are. What does being gay hurt? Who does it hurt? Not you, that's for sure. It has absolutely nothing to do with you, so why can't you let it be. Do you let people tell you how to raise your children? Do you let people tell you if you can/can't be with your husband/wife? What if they told you, your way was wrong and you had NO CHOICE, unless you wanted to suffer and be constantly rejected, and put down..that you had to be with the same sex. How would that make you feel? I hope I make some sort of impact with all of this, because it means so much to me. No, I'm not gay, but I think all people deserve to be treated equally and it's not right to treat some people different. Honestly, I think it's down right evil and immature. Take a moment and really think this through. Do you want to be the kind of person who doesn't wanna let people live their lives happily? Do you really wanna affect others in that way?

By the way, I have nothing against religious people, I am just so hurt by all the hatred that seems to go on. I know not all religious people are not the same and in no way did I intend on that meaning coming through in my writing. I care about people in general so much and I just want all of us to get along.

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New $1 Coins

October 14th, 2009

 So, apparently there are some new $1 coins coming out, or that just came out, that don't say "In God We Trust" on them. Many people are refusing to accept them and are trying to get others to do the same. How does this make you feel?

I personally feel it should have never been on our money in the first place, because that's discriminating against anyone who doesn't believe in God. However, it's not a HUGE HUGE deal to me. I think it would only be fair though if they were to take it off all of our money. That would be like someone putting "Warship The Devil" or "We Love Gays" (I am 100% for gay, lesbian and bi rights by the way), but what I'm trying to say is, why should there be a statement that's supposed to represent all of us as a whole, that doesn't?? I will gladly accept those coins.

 I don't want to sound rude or anything, but this is why I could never see myself being religious. Things like this shock me. How could people be so blind to the feelings of others? I realize that not EVERYONE who is religious acts this way.. I'm just saying, the types of people who are bug me.

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How Can You Help Someone With OCD?

October 14th, 2009

Sad thing is, you really cant. I mean, when I'm having my lil episodes like right now, all people can really do is let me know they care and let it pass. The confusion I face on a daily basis is overwhelming. I can't even begin to explain it to someone who doesn't have it. It will never truly make sense. Even for me, it's so complicated and strange.

My mind tells me that everything around me is wrong. No matter what I'm doing during an 'episode', I'm unhappy and overwhelmed. The simplest things become too hard to understand/keep track of. Even now, writing this, I'm so tempted to go back and read and make sure all is spelled right, but I gotta fight it, so I can't let myself.

What a lonely life it can become. People see you on the outside and could never make sense of my mind going 1,000 miles per hour.

This is hard to share so openly, but I want others to know they're not alone.

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Don't Let It Define You

October 14th, 2009

Anxiety doesn't define me.

Depression doesn't define me.

OCD doesn't define me.

Others cannot define me. 

My past doesn't define me.

What defines me is how much I've learned, how far I've come and how far I will go.

I know, if I put my mind to it, I am capable of anything.

Everything is going to be okay.

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Fun Times In Colorado

October 12th, 2009

I mean, sure the fun didn't last long, but this is my favorite moment from the trip. I can't seem to get enough of the video. I had so much fun playing with the kids and getting to know them better. It's so sad to not know my family that well, but I'm very happy to be able to get that chance, because I don't see it happening again. Especially with the way things have been going with my mom lately.

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Changes

October 12th, 2009

It can be so hard to deal with changes, but it's worth it in the end. We're constantly learning from our mistakes and becoming stronger people each day. It can be hard to get over your past, but I have a few things that may help you in my article How To Get Over The Past. I really hope it helps you look at things differently. It's always going to be a learning experience each and everyday. That's why I love the saying "What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger". I truly believe there's a learning experience in everything that happens in our lives.

As many of you know, I didn't have the best childhood. I was filled with fear, anger and regret. I know that it's something I will deal with everyday but I'm coming to terms with that and I'm fine with that.

Best of luck to all of you in becoming the person you wish to be!

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What I've Learned

October 10th, 2009

Sometimes you have to make mistakes before you can do the right thing. 

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Time Flies

October 10th, 2009

Found this old pic of me! WOW! It's been forever!!! Isn't it crazy how time flies??

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Hope You All Have a Safe Halloween

September 28th, 2009  

My cat Rose last Halloween. I miss her! RIP baby! Mama loves you :) 

Funny thing is, I've never actually dressed up for halloween. I think this will have to be the first year.. I just am trying to save money. Grr!! No fun hahaha. Hope you guys like the new background  I thought it would be fun. Talk to you all soon.

As always, contact me for any comments/feedback of any kind.

-Brittany Brydahl

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Brittany Here

September 15th, 2009

I just wanted to start off by saying Welcome and thank you for checking out my site. This is just kinda a place for me to get my thoughts out and hopefully in the process help each and every one of you with things you are going through. I have anxiety, depression and OCD. I have dealt with it my entire life but didn't realize what I was going through until recently. I have started taking pills and have been seeing a therapist for a while now. My advice to anyone going through the same thing would be to PLEASE PLEASE reach out for help. I can tell you honestly, it was the BEST decision of my entire life!!

I'll add more later!! See you soon

Wow! It's only been a few hours since the site was launched and already three members. I really want to thank everyone who came to the site. It doesn't matter to me if you just stopped by and read some posts.. it really means a lot to me. All my life I have just wanted to get my words out there and it's so wonderful to know that there are people out there who are actually interested in what I have to say.

THANK YOU TO ANYONE WHO HAS STOPPED BY, IT REALLY MEANS THE WORLD TO ME!!!!  

Wow! We already have 11 members!! (Including myself) and the site has been viewed like 80 TIMES. WOW! I am sooo excited to talk to all of you and get to know you. See you later!!!

-Brittany Brydahl